What is wrong with my hair? It's much different from normal girls hair, its all frizzy and staticy and puffy and feels like a spiderweb. It's even like this when I straighten it.

If you are straightening it you are using heat. My guess is you are blow drying as well, which is more heat. Look for a heat protectant that you put in after towel drying. It will seal and protect your hair.

Also do not rub your hair with a towel when drying. Work the towel from the roots to the ends. Your hair is actually made up of scales and rubbing back and forth with lift the scales making it frizzy. Also never brush wet hair. It will tear the hair. Use a wide tooth comb instead.

Use a shampoo for dry frizzy hair then follow with a conditioner, preferably one of the ones without a lot of chemicals.  If you're straightening your hair a lot it's probably fried the ends so a hot oil treatment would help.  Pat your hair dry with a towel then use the blow dryer on medium and make sure you get it properly dry.

I don't know if you're in the UK or US or I could recommend a very good shampoo and conditioner which has helped my frizzy mess a lot.