No I wouldn't tell someone I think they are pysically unattractive. But if someone asks me my opinion on their hair cut or outfit and I think its hideous I won't pretend to like it.
Would you tell someone their ugly or say you're unattractive? I feel we should be quick to tell others we care and add something nice to their day.
No. 😔
Why would i do that im no carey grant
I think everyone is attractive in their own way, it's just a matter of getting to know someone. If someone asks my opinion about their outfit or just anything in general I will give an honest opinion no matter if it's good or bad!
No, I couldn't do that. I also couldn't tell someone that their butt looks big in those pants.
I can't imagine any situation where that would be a good thing to do.
Dear Jann,
A true artist can see the beauty in anyone. With La Belle Heaulmiere, the sculptor Rodin showed the whole world her beauty. Life asks us to be artists for each other, and reflect their beauty back to them.
Of course not .. That would be desructive and deliberately hurtful. Why would anyone do that?
Having said that .. I feel compelled to add .. That's not something even a presidential candiate should say to anyone either...for the same reasons.
no.
Not a chance. Neither would I pay them a false compliment -- that has to be humiliating to them. Let's face it, almost all of us have flaws. Some of us *sob* have more than most. :(
Not really. Nor would I pretend to be attracted to them. Nor would I pretend to be attracted to someone I'm attracted to. Why? Reasons.
(i may regret writing this tomorrow rip)
No. There is nothing one can do about the appearance they were born with, and I think it awful the surgeries people are having in order to feel accepted by societies accepted standards. One persons ugly is anothers beautiful. Life would be extremely boring if we all looked the same. If a person just judges people by conventional looks, they will miss out on a lot of good folk. The thought of it reminds me of that film The Stepford Wives.
The only time I have ever called someone ugly, it was because they actions or words were ugly, not their physical appearance. And I have no problem calling anyone out on that.
To my shame, after weeks of REALLY unpleasant behaviour by a female acquaintance of mine, I called her a name which implied she was extremely ugly (which she was).
She was very upset, but at least the offensive conduct ceased.
I'm not particularly proud of it.
While I am all for "Complete Honesty" I believe it more prudent to focus on the more positive things someone can offer. If you were to ask me outright about your appearance, and you are physically repulsive . . . I might try and down play my reply with "You might lack a certain symmetrical quality that some equate with beauty, but you are always friendly and have good intentions towards others".
I WILL tell you if what you are wearing is unflattering to your body type . . . And have done so on numerous occasions.
