I love shoes but my favourite styles are all high heels, which I'm fine with, it's just that I'm average/tall without them and I don't want to be taller than everyone else. Should I just not wear them?


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First off, if you love wearing heels then that's all there is to it. It doesn't matter if you would appear taller than most people. If you love your heels and feel confident wearing them, then there isn't a problem at all. However, if wearing them and being taller than everyone else bothers you and makes you self-conscious, maybe you could wear shorter heels so that you can still get to wear your favorite shoes but also feel less self-conscious. But my main point is that there is no need for you to feel so insecure about your height if high heels are what make you happy. Try not to let things like that get in the way from something you like. And if others are being jerks about it, then ignore them because they aren't worth your time anyway. People who are truly worth your time wouldn't judge you base on your height or any other shallow reason.

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